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Gripping Movie of Reflection
Release Date: June 06, 2008
Audience: Older teenagers and adults
Runtime: 92 minutes
Distributor: Sony Pictures Classics
Director: Anand Tucker
Producer: Elizabeth Karlsen and Stephen Woolley
Writer: David Nicholls
Address Comments To:Michael Barker, Tom Bernard and Marcia Bloom
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Blake rejected his father’s profession of medicine and became a poet. Cutting back and forth as a young boy and a teenager, the story unfolds of young Blake discovering that his father is having an affair with “Auntie Beaty,” a family friend. This marks Blake with a sense of being betrayed by his father. His father flirts with other women, lies continually, and on more than one occasion teases Blake to the point of driving him to tears. Just when Arthur is seen to be a monster of a father, more reflections from the past appear showing a kinder side of Arthur. In flashback, the father and son take a road trip, which is bittersweet as Arthur teaches Blake to drive a car.
Blake never confronts his father about the adultery. Before Arthur dies, Blake attempts to talk to him, but he never does. This leaves him both missing his father and being glad that he’s gone. The movie is built around reflections. Many shots and sometimes entire scenes are shown as reflections in mirrors or other surfaces. The memories unfold as Blake tries to unpack his relationship with his father.
The movie is gently crafted. The writing, based on Blake’s true story novel, is amazingly honest. The directing is unique. The performances by all are rich and studied. The story is a complicated one based on the complicated relationships that adult children often have with their parents.
The movie, however, comes from a humanist worldview devoid of God. The opening images are of a night sky. Blake and his wife comment on creation just happening and “nothing” happening when you die. Though in his mid-thirties, Blake regresses to his teenage years when he stays with his father. He visits a woman that he dated when he was a teenager and nearly has an affair with her. The movie shows both teenage Blake and adult Blake masturbating.
There are many elements of which to be concerned. While there are only a few instances of foul language, a few are intense. There is much drinking throughout. Teenage Blake is shown in bed with the maid, Sandra. Adult Blake and his wife are depicted having sexual relations and, in one instance, discussing Blake’s impotence. Arthur lies all the time and cheats on many petty matters.
This movie is a stirring one and points out the need to resolve relationship difficulties before it’s too late. With discernment, this can be a satisfying and emotionally moving movie, but there are many elements of which to be wary.
The writing, based on Blake’s true story novel, is amazingly honest. The directing is unique. The performances are rich and studied. The story is a complicated one based on the often complicated relationships that adult children have with their parents. The movie, however, comes from a humanist worldview devoid of God. Blake regresses to his teenage years when he stays with his father. He visits a woman that he dated and nearly has an affair with her now. There are depicted scenes of sex, foul language and alcohol use.