Why Movieguide® Awards Host Jen Lilley Is Passionate About Foster Care, Adoption
By Tess Farrand, Associate Content Editor
Movieguide® Awards Host Jen Lilley shared about her experience with adoption in the Arizona Health & Living July 2020 cover issue.
“It’s a long road and that’s one of the things that makes it so emotional is you never know,” Lilley said.
For Lilley, her parenting is more important than her acting career and worth every challenge that comes her way.
“I think that if you want to take care of children in a really dedicated manner, especially children who are in foster care who really need a lot of love and attention, and they need a lot of consistency, then I would not have been able to successfully do the show at the same time… Something had to give,” Lilley told Forbes.
Lilley added, “either I was going to do a good job on the soap and maybe not give these children the love that they deserve or I was going to be a fantastic foster mom, and just flounder in my acting.”
So Lilley stepped away from DAYS OF OUR LIVES to focus on her family.
Lilley and her spouse, Jason Wayne, have adopted their son, Kayden, and are in the process of adopting his little brother after fostering them both. The married couple also have a biological daughter, Julie Evangeline, who was born in June 2019.
“According to Lilley, it was her work with the Childhelp Foundation in Phoenix that moved her and her husband, Jason, to finally start the fostering process,” reported Arizona Heath & Living.
Lilley is very active about her passion for adoption on social media and often shares personal antidotes about her own experiences.
The Christian actress leans on her faith to get her through the trying times.
She said on Instagram, “I am still standing in faith that I believe that God is just, and while the road to #adoption through fostercare is dark and scary, there’s always just enough light to help you take one more step. We were hoping for a light at the end of the tunnel today, but for now, we stay the scary course of uncertainty.”
Lilley’s adopted son Kayden spent just over two and half years in foster care with the Hallmark actress before his adoption finalized in June 2019. They are still working to adopt Kayden’s biological brother, who they’ve also fostered.
Even as Lilley and Wayne welcomed their first son into their home, they still strive to maintain a healthy relationship with his biological mother.
“I still stay in touch with the boys’ birth mom,” said Lilley. “Her rights have been terminated and we’re in the adoption phase, but I still check in with her. We let her know we love her [and] we’re thinking about her.”
Lilley also uses her knack for singing to shed light on adoption. Her debut album, “Lilley” will release this fall.
“100 percent of my profits from my music will always go toward helping orphans and children in foster care,” said Lilley.
The actress, who consults God before taking a role, also has a podcast called Fostering Hope that discusses the ins and out of foster care and adoption.
In February 2020, Lilley called for prayers for children in foster care around the world.
“Pray for every child in #thesystem today. Lord knows they need our prayers. Love you all!”
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Now more than ever we’re bombarded by darkness in media, movies, and TV. Movieguide® has fought back for almost 40 years, working within Hollywood to propel uplifting and positive content. We’re proud to say we’ve collaborated with some of the top industry players to influence and redeem entertainment for Jesus. Still, the most influential person in Hollywood is you. The viewer.
What you listen to, watch, and read has power. Movieguide® wants to give you the resources to empower the good and the beautiful. But we can’t do it alone. We need your support.
You can make a difference with as little as $7. It takes only a moment. If you can, consider supporting our ministry with a monthly gift. Thank you.
Movieguide® is a 501c3 and all donations are tax deductible.