"How Will You Heal?"
What You Need To Know:
THE STARLING will be hard for parents to watch, because it deals with the loss of a child. However, it beautifully honors the grieving process and shows good overcoming hardship. THE STARLING has a strong Christian, moral worldview. Pastoral care and church are seen as good things, especially in the light of loss. Positively too, Scripture is read on TV, and the movie stresses themes of friendship, taking care of others and animals, and reconciliation. However, MOVIEGUIDE® advises extreme caution because of slightly excessive foul language in THE STARLING.
THE STARLING follows the grief of two parents after their infant daughter’s sudden death. THE STARLING has a strong Christian, moral worldview that beautifully honors the grieving process and shows good overcoming hardship, but MOVIEGUIDE® advises extreme caution for slightly excessive foul language.
The movie begins with a married couple, Lilly and Jack Maynard, as they paint their daughter’s nursery. Jack says he had a dream about their baby’s future, and Lilly laughs in adoration. Cut to present day. Lilly works at the local grocery store, but Jack is nowhere to be found, until a few minutes later in the movie when she goes to visit him at some type of rehab place.
Viewers come to learn that their daughter died a year ago of SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome). In response to her death, Jack wanted to follow suit and one day, went to sleep in a closed garage with the car running, until Lilly found him and got him to the rehab facility. Meanwhile, she lives on their property with plenty of daily reminders of the life she could have lived if her daughter had lived.
In the movie’s first few scenes, one of the rehab workers recommends to Lilly a man who can help her deal with her emotions. Reluctantly but slightly desperate, Lilly goes to see the man, Larry, but he’s not what she expects. In fact, he’s a veterinarian who’s put his counselling days behind him. Happily, for Lilly, she has a bit of a bird problem at home.
Repeatedly, a starling bird keeps literally running into Lilly’s face. Now she has a reason to see Larry, since he’s a vet, and work through some of her grief and trauma, even though it’d be easier to stay numb. It’s obvious she’s ready to have some semblance of a normal life again.
Meanwhile, Jack grapples with needing to take medication and overcome, without being a father. When Lilly visits Jack one day, she mentions she got rid of all the things in their late daughter’s nursery. In response, Jack alerts his handlers that he’d rather not see Lilly for a while.
Where will these characters find the healing they so desperately crave?
Without question, THE STARLING would have been harder to make if not for CGI, which the movie uses to animate the birds. THE STARLING has some sweet chuckle-worthy moments that break up the heavy themes of grief and moving on after grief. Melodic music accompanies the movie’s tone as well, which leading stars Melissa McCarthy (SUPERINTELLIGENCE), Kevin Kline (THE PINK PANTHER) and Chris O’Dowd (THOR: THE DARK WORLD) perform brilliantly. THE STARLING might be hard for parents to watch, since it deals with the loss of a child, but its raw script beautifully honors the grieving process, and, ultimately, the good that can result after hardship.
THE STARLING has a strong Christian, moral worldview. From early scenes in the movie, it’s clear that pastoral care and church are seen as good things, especially in the light of loss. Positively too, Scripture gets read on TV, and the movie stresses themes of friendship, taking care of others and animals, and reconciliation. However, MOVIEGUIDE® advises extreme caution for slightly excessive foul language in THE STARLING.
“Look at the birds of the air, that they do not sow, nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not worth much more than they?”
– Matthew 6:26 (NASB)